Soul Mate Training – level 1


In Level one, which is an initiation on the tantric path for couples, we are focusing on rekindling the fire of your passion and are aiming to enhance the flow of energy between you two. Besides offering amazing techniques that can enhance your passion and connection we also work with and identify patterns that prevent couples from love. Common problems and issues for partners are addressed in a safe and loving way – you will learn tools for conscious communication and gain your own insights in how to move through them. Through the powerful lovemaking meditations offered in this level the attraction and sexual fire in your couple get enhanced and you can experience new heights and depths of pleasure together.

This training is held in a stunning, romantic, nurturing retreat centre called Desa Saya Eco Luxury Resort, situated in North Bali, in the area of Tejakula. The retreat center has a mountain view and acces to the beach and ocean, with gorgeously decorated cottages spaciously situated in idyllic gardens. The beauty, bliss and comfort of this divine venue converge to make the space feel like something out of a dream. This is the perfect place to dive into a deep and sacred practice.

For more detailed information, please reach out to Dieke ter Weel via email or whatsapp. 


Whatsapp: +31648885978

  • Date
    Jan 22 - 28th 2024
  • Venue
    Eco Luxury Resort, Bali, Indonesia
  • Teachers
    Ma Ananda Sarita & Modestas Stonkus
  • Organiser
    Dieke ter Weel,
  • Languages
  • Price
    3195 Euro Early Bird, 3495 Euro Regular


This series of seven retreats is for couples who would like to travel the path of Tantra in intimacy, an alchemy of union which weaves love and meditation together. It is truly the journey of a lifetime, a unique offering available only in Tantra Essence. It is designed to give couples time in-between retreats to experiment with the powerful transformative methods offered in each level. These methods are taught in a sequential order, offering a refined process of deepening intimacy, heightening sensual ecstasy, expanding love and awakening consciousness.


  • Seven levels series of retreats
  • Each level is seven days except the last level which is twelve days
  • Each retreat has to be attended in sequence
  • All seven levels can be completed in three and a half years
  • Each retreat includes intimate time together in your bedroom for practicing experiential Tantra meditations which include sexual union
  • You will learn a series of Tantra meditations to practice with your partner as homework. You will only be invited to attend the next level when you have completed the homework.
  • The retreats can be booked one level at a time
  • Experience God and Goddess in you and your partner


  • Travel a unique path of evolution through Tantra for couples
  • Heal inner wounding that stops you from creating a harmonious relationship
  • Experience the phenomenon of being Soul Mates with your partner
  • Transform your relationship and discover awareness, love, intimacy and bliss
  • Heal sexual dysfunction
  • Learn how to make love for hours 
  • Experience full body orgasm
  • Create a fulfilling and nurturing sexual and relationship life
  • Improve communication skills thereby dissolving misunderstanding and conflicts
  • Understand behaviour and thinking patterns of your partner better
  • Create a fulfilling, trustful, open and deep relationship with your partner
  • Experience mind blowing spaces of deep Tantric union, bridging sexuality, love and spirituality
  • Move higher and deeper than you ever thought possible in sacred sexuality, love and relationship
  • Experience God and Goddess in you and your partner


  • Men’s and women’s erotic, emotional and spiritual fulfilment
  • Tantra meditation in the couple as an evolution of consciousness
  • How to apply Tantra methodology in relationship dynamics 
  • Esoteric and erotic Tantra practices in your bedroom with your partner
  • Men’s work
  • Women’s work
  • Partner and group sharing
  • Conscious communication in partnership
  • Trouble shooting methods to dissolve conflict
  • Emotional release and breath methods
  • Dance
  • Playful interactive group structures
  • Sacred theatre performances 
  • Hypnosis for healing 
  • Tantra massage 
  • Tantric ritual


A sample of our daily schedule is as follows:

  • 7:30am – Group meditation session
  • 9:00am – Breakfast
  • 10:30am – Group session
  • 1:00pm – Lunch
    3:00pm – Group session
  • 4:00pm – Tea and snack
  • 4:30pm – Tantra Practices in your bedroom with your beloved
  • 6:30pm – Dinner
  • 8:00pm – Group session
  • 9:30pm – End for the day

*There may be some variations to the schedule depending on what is needed for the best possible flow in the group.


Level 1 – Intimacy

This initiation supports you to deepen intimacy, purge stagnation from your relationship, open your heart to receptive, conscious communication,
heal sexual dysfunction, and experience sacred sexuality. The homework series is 21 love appointments.

Level 5 – Exalted Union

In this level men and women explore their innate God and Goddess nature. Relaxation into exalted union supports conservation of semen.
Women as initiatress invite their beloved to embrace divine sexuality, beyond time and mind.
The homework series is 14 love appointments

Level 2 – Male Female Balance

In this level we offer an esoteric exploration of the male and female chakra system, leading to the harmony of opposite polarities,
the experience of orgasm in all seven chakras and the phenomenon of the Soul Mate. The homework series is 14 love appointments.

Level 6 – Ardhanareshvara

In this level, the divine spark, which fuels Yin and Yang, awakens. The couple remembers how it is to live as Ardhanareshvara,
beyond duality, both inside oneself and in love partnership. Men as initiators, support women in discovering transcendental consciousness.
The homework series is 18 love appointments

Level 3 – Sensual Awakening

Exploring love relationship through the door of the senses, psychic sensitivity and heightened pleasure become easily accessible.
Included in this level is a Yin Yang balancing meditation series which assists couples to experience lovemaking for two hours at a time or longer.
The homework series is 21 love appointments

Level 7 – Mahamudra

This level usually takes place near the sea or in nature. Lovers will help each other in an ecstatic process of expansion towards Mahamudra,
the ultimate gesture of love, which arises through orgasm with the universe.
The entire series of 10 love appointments is completed during the Retreat.

Level 4 – Royal Liberation

In this level we explore the sacred union of male and female sexuality with a special ritual called ’marriage of the body.’
This includes preparation time, where men and women separate, to explore, heal and expand their own unique qualities.
Included is a meditation series on the ultimate fulfilment of desire. The homework series is 14 love appointments.